Quote: Then he asked who was there last evening. I told him, the whole gang. He sounded surprised. He told me he hadn't seen one of them for quite a while. We had a short chat and then ended. I was quite glad he had called off lunch, leaving me more time to get on with things, so I was able to respond without sounding less than OK about things. (Note, the acoustics at OW 1's place are very particular and I can tell from the sound over the phone when H is at her place!! )
Hmmm. So, he has total visibility of what you do when he is not around, who you socialise with. He gets to cancel arrangements with you. And he gets to hang out with ow. Now, how is this different from when he first moved out? If you had a choice, what of these dynamics would you like to change (those that are within your control, of course )
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