I know that feeling. Even when I do hold hands with my wife, she never grips it. It is just like she is asleep, no energy, no passion, no desire. I held hands once with the OW and the instant I made contact I could feel the desire flowing there with a strong grip (the smile that accompanyed helped too). I gotta get stuff like that out of my head for now. But I don't want to forget it because I don't want to settle for less in my marriage. Does that make sense?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
