I have no idea either what will or won't work, but I guess we will find out.
As for H telling me yet again that BMOW HATES ME with a PASSION, I think that if she really does, (and he is not projecting some of his own repressed or whatever feelings), I am starting to think that she probably developed the so-called feelings of hatred toward me when she read my emails to my H during their affair after I found out. They were not pretty nor nice and most certainly were not meant for her to read, but H gave her the passwords to his email accounts and she got to read some of my very personal heartfelt feelings about her, him and the whole situation. Apparently my words did not sit well with her. After thinking about this for some time now, that is the best explanation that I can come up with. I could post some of what I wrote back then here, but it was pretty raw and would require a heck of a lot of censoring. My emotions were running pretty ragged at the time.
You know, thinking about it now, that was pretty abusive on my H's part to allow her to read that stuff, and especially with her so emotionally unstable. Oh well, water under the bridge I guess. I suppose we will soon learn how she is going to react to all this anyway, and yes, her potential for reacting dangerously is actually quite high.
Thanks for the nice compliments!
LG
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
