Hi LG, just checking in on your thread. Good news, about taking the steps to extricate remaining ties from BMOW and the biz.... and very smart to consult a lawyer. I have no legal background, but am wondering if you can simply write a letter and really be absolved of liability. I know you can do that with a spouse/family member by publishing it in the newspaper, but a lawyer can advise as to whether this is totally possible.
It seems so odd that your H feels that BMOW feels so strongly about you.... of course, he knows her and I don't, but it just does not make sense that she would care that strongly. I hope that he is being overly cautious, since if he is accuarate in his assessment of her, she is sort of dangerous.
Sounds like things are mostly smooth, and lots of good communication going on-- good deal!