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Sometimes I think I am never going to quit finding his affair evidence. It just seems to want to linger. And why the heck is it still lingering about?

I think these "reminders" are God's way of testing his gift of patience - which incidentally is why I don't pray for patience as much . Instead I pray for wisdom and peace.

I think there can also be some value for S having things like this come up, to help them process the consequences of their actions. They obviously were not thinking of consequences when they acted, so there has to be some time, and a positive example from us , to help bring them back to reality.

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