SC, I am glad that I was able to help you see the light (so to speak )about H's "secret" hotmail account. I just want to have some fun with it for awhile and I think I shall.
My H initiated a little discussion with me last night. Interestingly, the talk regarded email accounts, BMOW, her boyfriend/new affair partner/fiance/business marketing director, and the business itself. However, H did NOT mention the secret hotmail account! In hindsight, I wonder if he was waiting for ME to say something?? Not yet, but soon. (Sorry, SC.)
Anyway, H told me that at the end of this month everything involving the internet business would be finalized. Two of the three business partners definitely want out. One of those two is my H. The third partner will probably get out also, and that will be the end of the business as it is known today. They are currently working up how and what they are specifically going to do. I imagine that whatever they decide, BMOW will not be very accepting of (is she ever?) and thus the fireworks will occur that H and his horoscope have predicted for the end of January.
The best part of the talk though was when H was able to show a bit of remorse for his past actions. He throws me a tidbit every now and then, although I think the remorse he actually displayed was toward having to deal with the business in the upcoming manner he is going to be forced to do.
H surprised me today too. He IMed me just before lunch:
Quote: h: Anyone there?
times passes...
lost_girl: Yup. I'm here. Sorry--I was warming myself in front of the space heater in the other room.
(It's cold again here people. Brrrr...)
h: I would like to warm you in the bedroom (he inserted a grinning devil icon here)
h: Nothing like a crude husband...
lost_girl: Hahahahahahahahaha! That is the most romantic thing you have said to me in a looooooong time!!
h: I am feeling more like my old self. it's kind of nice
lost_girl: I have missed your old self terribly.
h: awww... has it been that bad?
lost_girl: I have been mostly just lonely for you.
the conversation comes to a screeching halt here and there is a few moments pause...so I start it up again
lost_girl: so are you hungry?
lost_girl: how about leftovers?
h: a little - its lunchtime anyway. Leftovers would be great
lost_girl: glad to hear it!
h: alrighty - on my way home <kiss>
He has not flirted with me like that in I don't know HOW long. I was really taken by surprise to see him type that. I guess we are slowly making headway.
I shall end this post with SC's tongue-in-cheek email to BMOW's fiance. First, the email from BMOW's fiance to refresh everyone's memory and then SC's response to him on my behalf will follow.
Quote:
Ms. LG,
Just wanted to thank you for forwarding the inquiry to us. My name is XXXX, I am BMOW's fiance', and handle the majority of inbound inquiries as well as opening new markets.
We hope the New Year finds you and [insert bad screw up of my H's name here] doing as well as we are...
Regards, XXXX
------------------- SC emailed me:
What a loser! He thinks he has a big role, yet he handles customer email inquiries? In most organizations, that makes him entry level customer service!
And I still can't understand how you can be the fiance of a married person.
Here's the reply I would want to write (but of course would not send):
XXXX,
Thanks for your note. I was not aware that this bankrupt business was in a position to have another employee; things must be looking up! I sure appreciate your foregoing a real job, to take a chance on this....who knows, maybe it will work out.
Oh and congratulations on your engagement to BMOW. I must have missed something; I thought she was still married. I hope you two get all the happiness you deserve, and that you fare better than her last few men.
Regards, Ms LG
PS--who is [insert bad screw up of my H's name here]? Is this a friend of [LG's H]? If so, I can pass along your kind wishes.
Thanks SC for the laugh and permission to post! For therapeutic purposes, I am considering writing my own response to BMOW's fiance, which of course, I wouldn't send either, however I may consider forwarding it to H's secret email account.
BTW, if anyone else wants to formulate a hypothetical response to BMOW's fiance, post away! I am still thinking about mine.
Well, it is time for me to go warm up in front of the heater again.
Happy Thursday, LG
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.