Ahhhhh, she says, as the lightbulb goes on over her head!
I jumped to conclusions on the hotmail account-- I was thinking that he had agreed to close all the secret accounts, and thus, the mere existance was an issue regardless of the purpose for it's use.
That does shed a different light on it.... and even if it had not, you're the only one entitled to decide how to handle it.
I guess the only part that would drive me crazy is.. that if it's active but he's not using it he will never see your emails. (or if he pretends that is the case) That would drive me crazy, not knowing which was the case. God gave me many blessings and talents, but on the flip side, He gave me a terrible need to know/understand things-- probably to excess.
You don't frustrate me, you just do things differently than I would. I've learned that when I totally don't get why someone is doing something, that's when I have the most opportunity to learn from them. It's the stuff that I'd never figure out on my own, since it's so different from my style/instinct.
Oh, and I emailed you with an 2nd-style response to the email from BMOW's boy toy.
