I am a little annoyed right now at my H. Well, perhaps more than a little annoyed.

He seems to be keeping at least one of his secret hotmail accounts open that he used in the past to converse with women he met from personal sex ads.

I found a file before Christmas in my computer's trashcan that H put there one Sunday morning last September when I was at church. Now why he didn't just empty the trashcan so that I wouldn't find it I have no idea except to make me think that he closed that account. Anyway, I sent that specific account several emails today to see if they would bounce, which they should do if the account is closed or inactive for 30 or more days. They didn't bounce. I am curious to see if H says anything to me about sending them to that account.

Ellen/stillgrowing, whereever you are, I need your computer expertise! Please email me at lost_girl9925@hotmail.com would you? I have some questions for you.

LG--really struggling to believe there is a *positive* explanation for this, but wondering if this is somehow linked to H's current lack of desire for me


A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.