My H's D16 (my step-D16) and her brother, S21 (my step-S21) arrive tomorrow for their annual Christmas visit. My step-D16 posted this in part in her public online journal this morning:
Quote: i had bad dreams last night and it's so f*cking cold over my bed.
f*ck. maybe texas will be warmer. but it doesn't matter, I hate texas anyway.
speaking of, i won't be accessing my little internetical realm for awhile, since i'll be in texas tomorrow and i don't have a private computer there, and i don't feel like having my dad's small-minded christian wife find this journal like she did my old one, and me having to start censoring my entries again, and my mom having even more reason to freak out since my dad would have a spy into my oh-so ex-rated life...anyway...
THREE THINGS I WANT TO DO BEFORE I DIE: 1. sail. 2. reach personal perfection. 3.f*ck a married man.
Are these thoughts that should be ignored? I am not a parent and have never been a parent, thus I am clueless as to what to do, if anything. Supposedly her mother reads her journal also, but what kind of mother would support their daughter writing garbage like this?
H's response is to pooh-pooh them, because she is just a child and if her mom is reading her journal, why should he worry about it? It must be ok then. Some posts I know she wrote because she knew I was reading her journal and she posted garbage merely to get a rise from me. She does not know I am reading this new journal. And let me restate for the record, she posts in a public blog. Anyone can read and post back to her. She also has the choice of making her entries private, but she doesn't do that.
I am very, very sad about this. Let's say she made that post in the event she expects me to read it anyway. Can anyone with teenager experience give me some insight here? Or, really, just any insight would be nice.
Thanks.
LG
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
Some posts I know she wrote because she knew I was reading her journal and she posted garbage merely to get a rise from me. She does not know I am reading this new journal. And let me restate for the record, she posts in a public blog. Anyone can read and post back to her. She also has the choice of making her entries private, but she doesn't do that.