Yes, I am glad I can secretly smirk here, and, sigh..., I do occasionally think to myself that my H did get what he deserved. All his life his has been so important to his lifestyle (as it would be for most sex addicts), it is about time that he slowed down and was a bit introspective about his behavior. If, per chance, my H believes the Lord is punishing him, he has yet to share those thoughts with me. He DID share recently with me something that he learned at my church's marriage retreat this past July--the Lord rewards certain behaviors, therefore, following that line of thought, my H is not currently being rewarded in the department by the Lord.
Anyway, things between us just keep improving. Tonight he is taking me to dinner and has a motel room reserved for us! Ok, yeah, this is really just an overnight business trip, but he invited me to come with him and I accepted!
We had a long talk that H initiated about BMOW and the business today at lunch. It appears that she is not responding to the other business partner's emails, and hasn't for a few weeks now, at least since the last email she sent where she complained that she felt H and I were harrassing her when she received forwarded business mail and inventory.
I suspect her life is falling apart, but for all I know, she could have run off with her current fiance and got a quickie divorce in Mexico, followed by a quickie marriage to him (it would be her third marriage ). No real telling about her, but my H did also pass along to me that after meeting with the other business partners recently, they all agreed that they will no longer invest any more money in the business!! YEA!!!!!! And, they have had their fill of BMOW as business manager and she will be given the option to quietly resign or they will simply fold and restructure the company without her!! Thank You Lord!!!
Gotta go throw some things in my overnight bag...
Blessings, LG
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
has been so important to his lifestyle (as it would be for most sex addicts), it is about time that he slowed down and was a bit introspective about his behavior. If, per chance, my H believes the Lord is punishing him, he has yet to share those thoughts with me. He DID share recently with me something that he learned at my church's marriage retreat this past July--the Lord rewards certain behaviors, therefore, following that line of thought, my H is not currently being rewarded in the 
). No real telling about her, but my H did also pass along to me that after meeting with the other business partners recently, they all agreed that they will no longer invest any more money in the business!! YEA!!!!!! And, they have had their fill of BMOW as business manager and she will be given the option to quietly resign or they will simply fold and restructure the company without her!! Thank You Lord!!!