Wow, LG, you are handling this new discovery very well - especially after I'm sure you thought you had purged everything in your shredding frenzy. (That image still makes me smile).
((((((((((((((((lost_girl)))))))))))))))))))))
Your attitude about this is specifically helpful this morning, since although W has assured me she is trying to have no contact with OM (he still calls her), I found a key to OM's house in W's purse while looking for something else. I suppose it could have been a forgotten, left over, but I was pretty upset when I found it this morning. I forced myself to "act as if" and even gave her a kiss goodbye (which was returned by W!).
Are you going to dispose of the evidence? Also, didn't Step-D do a 180 in her attitude toward you during her last visit?
