I found your reply interesting but not terribly relevant. I was using my sexual giles to manipulate my H, but I was trying to manipulate him into having sex with me, so his thought patterns would have to be very strange indeed to resent this.
" Mmm..she thinks by fondling her breasts she will cause me to become sexually aroused enough to want to have sex with her. How dare she interrupt my viewing of Ted Koppel and his insightful take on the day's events! I'll show her who's the boss of my penis. Someday when everything is going just right in my life and she's been extra nice, I might allow myself to be distracted and aroused by her sluttish hijinks, but for now....(distracted from reverie by my actions)Why are you getting all dressed up? Where are you going in those high heels on such a cold evening? Don't you want to stay here with me and Ted Koppel? Who will make me a midnight snack?"
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
