JustJenny asked HD men to reply {{Can you imagine a situation in which your emotional state would be such that an attractive woman fondling her breasts in front of you would not cause you to become aroused?}}
JJ, in general it would arouse me. Here are some more situations and actions I would most likely take. I assumed when you did this infront of your H, you wanted more than to arouse him, you wanted him to do his husbandly duties.

Married situation under normal circumstances, hay I am ready Freddy.

Married, W manipulating for some small favor, let her play with herself a little longer. It is fun to see her do the baiting work sometimes.

Married, W trying to manipulate over large item or major relationship issue to get me to change my opinion or behavior that compromises a major belief of mine. Get lost until W was rational or the issue was worked out.

Dating in an exclusive R, things going well. She is hot, lets satisfy the itch if we are working toward getting married.

Dating in an exclusive R, things going poorly. Is this make-up behavior or is it control behavior? Lets work out the differences first. Do I want this woman to be the mother of my 2 to 6 children? Maybe later.

Casual new dating partner. Flatered but do I want this woman to be the mother of my 2 to 6 children? Lets get to know each other better. Most likely not.

Stranger I just met or first date. Way overboard. Is this woman a hooker. Is she this open to anyone. Not for me. I want an exclusive R and exclusive sex partner.

Stranger I never met. Way over the top. Flasher, Hooker, mentally ill, crabs, STD's??? Free sex might cost more than I want to pay.

Sorry if I do not come across as a normal HD male steroytype. I am not religious but believe in some standards that deal with people not taking advantage of others. I need the emotional connection that goes along with sex for it to be really good.

I guess I saw how much teen, early 20's girls suffered when they got PG and were not married. Also saw some guys get married because girlfriend was PG and now the guy felt overwhelmed with responsabilities, or lack of educational oportunities.

OG Lou. Normal drive (2 to 3 X /week) with standards.