Perhaps there is a double standard at play, but if so I think it is a subtle one. A guy whipping it out and mbing just isn't the sexual equivalent of a woman fondling her breasts. I think the equivalent would be more along the lines of a guy making it obvious that he was erect in a more subtle fashion. Though I might be wrong. It is generally believed that men are more "object oriented" in their arousal and women are more situationally or emotionally oriented. I would bet that most HD women are pretty "object oriented" and would say that just the thought of an erection straining against a tight pair of Levis would turn them on with no context needed.
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