Quote: Can you imagine a situation in which your emotional state would be such that an attractive woman fondling her breasts in front of you would not cause you to become aroused?
I can think of no reason. The only time in my life I have ever not had a sex drive is when I was praying to the porcelein god. Short of that, anytime a stiff breeze blows, I am aroused. A woman touching herself, that is one of my fantasies!
You uncovered a big problem that us HD's have, how can we maintain our sexuality when our spouses are basically not helping. MB is not enough. It is like our spouses want us to hide our sexuality in a closet and never bring it out. But sexuality is a part of our normal day to day lives. What outlets are there for this short of adultry! How can we maintain our sexuality with out cheating? It really is a tough thing to figure out.
