Ok, glad to hear that was sarcasim...one of the downsides of the net is that doesn't always translate.
One of the things I'm battling with is that my H isn't what I'd coin a "typical man"...porn doesn't do it for him. But I am learning what does...and as I'm a (believe it or not) fairly shy woman myself, I'm having to work up to doing anything demonstrative to see if he'd like it.
I know how he likes me to dress (which is provocative) so I do know he has visual stimulus to an extent...it's just discovering to what extent...and that's one of the processes I'm currently working on. It's a bit on the back burner right now though since we are concentrating on the communication a bit more right now.
