Quote: Can you imagine a situation in which your emotional state would be such that an attractive woman fondling her breasts in front of you would not cause you to become aroused? How angry at the woman, depressed with the world etc. would you have to be for this to be so?
I would have to be VERY ill. Even anger doesn't kill it for me... although pity does.
I recall that, at the end of my marriage to XW, she pulled something like this after we hadn't had S for about two months. At first, I was aroused, and then I converted my thoughts to pity for her, because I saw what she was doing to herself was just a last ditch attempt on her part to see if I was interested in her, which I wasn't. I had lost all respect for her, and my attraction for her went with it.
But this is not the same situation as yours. You two have a reasonably good relationship, without the END coming up like a roaring train.
I'm pretty disappointed with my W today, but if she pulled this tonight, I'd love it!
