Quote: By the way, if my W started fondling herself while sitting next to me, it would get my undivided attention, Koppel be damned. (just reading that got my, ahem, attention).
Since I have to maintain my reputation as the bad girl on the board, I have to admit that sometimes (frequently) the reason I like to post the tales of my failed initiation attempts is I crave the confirmation that my attempt would "work" on a "normal" man. It actually helps my marriage in a wierd way because it helps me feel like I'm not losing my grip on sexual reality while coping with my LDH. When he tells me that it is unfair for me to expect him to become aroused just because I'm fondling myself, I have to be able to remind myself that in the world outside my relationship women fondling their breasts is "good" not "bad". I need someone to back me up when I observe that the Emperor has no clothes. So here is a question for the HD guys on the board. Can you imagine a situation in which your emotional state would be such that an attractive woman fondling her breasts in front of you would not cause you to become aroused? How angry at the woman, depressed with the world etc. would you have to be for this to be so?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
