Do you realize how crude that sounded? You litereally illicited a disgusted look on my face while I sat here and read that and I'm a woman who does love sex.
I still maintain your attitude comes across to your wife. To ANY woman your attitude would be a HUGE turnoff.
I'm not saying she hasn't done things that warrant these feelings. Heck, we've all experienced them...and still do, but you've got to get this in check or you will not see any changes in her.
I don't say that to be mean or hurtful at all...it's just true.
