Lillieperl:

I just read through all the examples on this thread. What do they have in common. THERE ARE NO LD WOMEN IN ANY OF THESE RELATIONSHIPS! The one where there WAS a LD female resulted in divorce. What all of these "Happy" couples have in common is that the difference in their sex drives is very small. In effect, all the men and women on these threads are HD. Many of us HD's on this board have spouses, male or female, that have sex drives that are 10x lower then the people in these examples. One lady on here said she liked sex 2x a day, that is 730x a year. I get sex 10x a year, NONE of which was desired by the lady. I personally want the 730x a year, so that means my desired leve of sex is somewhere between 50 to 100x greater then my spouse. There are 2 things common to great marriages according to the research I have done: 1) The se drives of the spouses involved are roughly equal, and 2) They have FREQUENT great sex. So, the thread that you listed makes it clear that these people love their sex lives because they are ALL HD. THAT IS WHAT THEY HAVE IN COMMON.