Your question "why can't I have a normal husband?" prompted this. I've really been thinking about this thread recently. What really makes these people different from us? (Actually there is one guy on there who had an SSM.) "Normal" couples have issues, conflicts, power struggles. And from these posts, it's clear that they have dry spells, too. Is the difference that they KNOW the dry spell will not be permanent? Is the difference that their power struggles and hurts are not worked out in the bedroom? That they don't take the lack of sex personally?> That their drive levels are more compatible that in our R's?
