OK, let me get this right. HDM are beer swilling abusers who don't think W are good for anything but sex. Right? Kind of like the caveman who bonks the W on the head with his club, drags her to his cave, and then boinks her?

LDM are sensitive, caring types that enjoy sex occasionally, but don't really care about exciting sexual encounters. Kind of like Truman Capote on Valium?

But REAL men make excuses for not having sex, won't address the W's concerns about the M, and refuse to aggresively show his W the passion she desires, all while patting themselves on the back for not being brutish. (I don't have an example on this one other than Mr.Wilson and Mr.HP)

As a caveman who doesn't drink or abuse women and wants an intimate R, I'm very confused!