This is how my H perceives High Drive men, as well. As a bunch of beer swilling brutes who will use me for sex and nothing else. I have never been able to understand his position: is a pussycat who looks down on brutes, or is he a repressed brute? It really doesn't matter, as he is currently unable to be brutish with me except on rare occasions.
Too bad about the super horny stuff. It would indeed be like winning the lottery!
