Thank you for saying that. I also have a high desire to be sexually intimate in the passive sense. Incidentally my H far prefers me on top and me initiating so I need a high degree of sexual frustration, desire and guts to pull this off in a climate where I question if I am desired at all. My getting the opportunity to climb on top and "do my business" regularly won't satisfy my true needs either. Biological sex drive is a pretty small part of the overall sitch. What does your H say about this?
