Let me sum up my previous post to you and see if this is more clear.
It is not your husband's fault that you see him through your set of traditional filters.
That is why you must stop holding him accountable for your notions.
That is why you must BOTH work together on a solution to a marital problem.
How's that?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
