Nopkins,

Thanks
I am trying to own my part. My H seems only to regret his half of the equation and has great difficulty with seeing a solution. See my thread - Christmas doesn't come in a box.

Hairdog - I hear ya on the flannel nightie. Maybe you can get her a thong for underneath. My H would buy something like that for me rather than acknowledge that I would like the Victoria's Secret.

Jenny - sorry for the hijack. This thread has been most illuminating today.
Karen