WB,
Sure I realize that.

My point is that society does not BOMBARD you with the message that all wives are horny and brimmin with desire, and you go home to the ONLY wife who is not.

That is the plight of the HD wife. Look, I'm not saying it's easy being a HDH. Only that there are unique challenges to each and in some ways the chicks have it worse.
You fellas could fill up an entire thread on why it sucks donkey dongs to be the HDH's, I'm sure.

HP