Quote: None of us would accept, "I don't ever want to have sex again" from our S. But what if they said, "I'll have sex with you, but I'll never WANT you like you want me to"?
I don't know Barn, I think I would accept it if W would tell me that she never wants sex again. I wouldn't like it, I would hope to change it, but at least it would let me know where things stand. That's better than never getting any answers when I bring up sex and constantly wondering what's going on.
The second choice might even be worse. I could have sex, but it would leave me with the same question that Ms. Hairdog posed to him: why do you want to have sex with someone you know doesn't want to have sex with you? Now that would really require some heavy introspection and evaluation of the sitch.
