My H is also the dream H for an LD husband. He is kind, loving, considerate, helps with the kids etc...but there is this nagging distance that he maintains which causes me a considerable amount of consternation and pain. I have to then choose whether to "put myself out there" or not. Very often my own desire is actually negligible at that moment but if I see a chance then I have to try to reel in that fish lest I never see another. My question - is there ever a time that we will have a natural flow of sexuality in the R?
Karen, who is tired of not only fixing her own plate but of going into the kitchen and finding only junk food there
