Hi JJ,

Sorry to hear that things aren't all great in Mojoland. As a HDM, I say "Ditto" to Hairy's post!

This is something that I've been thinking a lot about lately. None of us would accept, "I don't ever want to have sex again" from our S. But what if they said, "I'll have sex with you, but I'll never WANT you like you want me to"?

It seems to me that most of those who progress in frequency are still dissatisfied in the desire category. MrsNOP says she's LD, but it sounds to me that her desire makes her HD. Outside of that, I don't see anyone else who has jumped the desire hurdle. It gives me cause for concern as we make "scheduled sex" steps forward.

Again, welcome back. I hope Mr.Wilson/Cuddles becomes Mr.MeatPacker for you.