This was great!

That is how I feel too.

The HD guys who are having sex with their wives are frustrated as all hell, but they are still ML to a person who is acting like a woman. Their mental picture..societal and cultural mores support how she is acting, though it is still hurtful, no doubt about it.

But here I am, faced with a man who is acting like a woman.

It causes no end of confusion and icky feelings within me.

And yes I realize that this is MY problem to deal with and not anything that my husband is required to fix.

Mostly, I'm just commiserating with my sistas, with no intent of EVER letting my husband know how I feel. If he ever found this site and began posting, a la the NOPS, I'd sure feel bad about calling him a chick.