Quote: You know, J, we aren't going to be doing this schedule thing forever." That really blew the wind out of my sails and I could picture the HD men on this board saying wtf is his problem.
What a poopyhead.
What do you think he was trying to establish by saying that?
This is where all the prickly past-stuff comes rushing in and the hackles rise, isn't it? I would suggest rather than assuming the worst that you approach him when you can create a little distance and ask him just what he intended to convey by saying that. Same to JJ's hubby and his piece of meat comment.
People verbally kick out for a variety of reasons, and sometimes the reason has nothing to do with the matter at hand when they loose the sewage upon you. Maybe they had a sucky day that had nothing to do with you, but you (lucky you) were nearby when they decided to make a stand.
At some point in a relationship, it has to be established that sh*tty things shouldn't be said in passing.
