I am in the boat with you and honeypot. I know the frustration of always being responsible for the sexual health of the relationship and knowing that if you don't apply yourself it all falls apart. I look upon the sexuality in the R as the barometer of the quality of the R and that makes it very hard to tolerate times when there is no sex without my efforts. Remember, it is NOT wrong to want to be close to your mate. I understand that it is not about just wanting a piece to you. I'm sorry that your H feels that way.
