Liese wrote {{You can really damage the internals workings if you ML under water?}}
Liese, I saw it on Berman & Berman (2 sisters, one a uriologist, the other a psychologist, both do a lot of work with low LD women) on Discovery Health Channel. The reason was stated that water does not compress, air does . If the internal female cavity is filled with water as the male anatomy thrust in, the increased water pressure builds up in the female anatomy and could possibally expand the pallopian tubes and damage them. Berman & Berman said this would not happen every time but they said it was a possibility. I studied in a short industrial hydraulics class. It make sense from what I learned in the hydraulics class. I do not make up any of what I post. I have been called serious-minded many times.
For some reason being in the swimming pool or hot tub always turned me on big time. Later in the M, I often became so frustrated with W being LD and me normal drive and turning into super HD at the moment when we were in the water, I got to the point I would get a headache or make up a reason to end the hot tub sessions after 30 to 45 minuets. Sometimes I avoided the hot tub altogether. Two hours of fore play, back rubs, foot rubs, play with her hair, hisses, then no action. Bummer, bummer, bummer!!! That is why the hot tub just sits most of the time.
W had a hysterectomy and we have done it in the hot tub. No follopian tubes, so no problem there. W did get urinary tract infection (UTI) so no more nookie in the tub.
I heard about the shower massage for female MB in the last couple of years. When I read about the female MB using the shower, I started to think that maybe it happen in my house when D was around 15. Her showeing activities changed. It did not dawn on me until I read about women MBing in the shower. I also figured out why the pillow masager was in her room most of the time. Strange how you put 2 and 2 together 15 years after someone moves out of the house.
Anyway, D is 34 now and loves her H, so I guess that was good practice for her. Much better than being a cold fish as the boys in the garage called it.
{{ add a bit of emolients, oils, soap for a silky feel}} Liese, I liked sharing a bouble bath with W when we first got M. She was normal drive then. Her favorite thing to add to the bath water was "Skin So Soft" I think that was an Avon brand product. Soft, smooth skin that smelled like spring flowers, now that is HOT.