Lots and lots and lots of good stuff you've posted... this is so great to hear!! I am very happy for you and the W. Sounds like the two of you have made tremendous strides.
Hope you keep posting your progress every so oftern. Love hearing from you... you've certainly given me some food for thought.
Some Saturday feedback from SuperDave... Got straight to the action again last night and it worked a treat! Just before, she had expressed concern because there was a crowd of 19 year olds playing computer games in the den downstairs and she thought they might hear something but I quickly gave her something else to occupy her mind with the swiftest of chest rubs followed by a long and deliberate slide down to the danger zone. By the time I got there she was all mine! At the height of the action there was a fair bit of noise from downstairs when the teenagers went out but she was beyond the point of caring by then and actually made a fair bit of noise herself at the end which was delicious! I think this is an approach that is well worth trying but I have to admit that I have the advantage that she is prepared for something to happen because of our weekly schedule. Be bold and good luck! SD
Dear Hairdog, not that I'd ever want to dampen your enthusiasm, or be seen as critical of your technique... but in my experience I'd rather a man stop before my head actually caves in. Don't stop TOO soon, but really, those caved in heads tend to make you feel bad about your appearance for days.
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I'm with you on this one 2ndC. In addition to the "head caving in" imagery not being too tasteful, the whole scenario lacks credibility IMO. If Mrs.HD is standing up in the shower and HD is performing the above-mentioned action, how will he be able to avoid getting water up his nose. Also, since HD is significantly taller than Mrs.HD, I don't believe that simply kneeling would get his face low enough to achieve this result. Finally, in my experience it is somewhat difficult to orgasm at all while standing on a slick surface supporting you own weight, let alone achieving the "head cave" level of experience. Therefore, I feel that this fantasy must be relegated to the category of "Nice in theory. Real life failure.".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
JustJenny wrote {in my experience it is somewhat difficult to orgasm at all while standing on a slick surface supporting you own weight,}
HairDog try oral in the hot tub. Try to stop before the head or face caves in. Making her weak kneeded is good enough . NO Intercourse underwater, could damage the fallopian tubes and cause other damage.
Do women get turned on sexually when in water, or is that a male thing?
Liese wrote {{You can really damage the internals workings if you ML under water?}}
Liese, I saw it on Berman & Berman (2 sisters, one a uriologist, the other a psychologist, both do a lot of work with low LD women) on Discovery Health Channel. The reason was stated that water does not compress, air does . If the internal female cavity is filled with water as the male anatomy thrust in, the increased water pressure builds up in the female anatomy and could possibally expand the pallopian tubes and damage them. Berman & Berman said this would not happen every time but they said it was a possibility. I studied in a short industrial hydraulics class. It make sense from what I learned in the hydraulics class. I do not make up any of what I post. I have been called serious-minded many times.
For some reason being in the swimming pool or hot tub always turned me on big time. Later in the M, I often became so frustrated with W being LD and me normal drive and turning into super HD at the moment when we were in the water, I got to the point I would get a headache or make up a reason to end the hot tub sessions after 30 to 45 minuets. Sometimes I avoided the hot tub altogether. Two hours of fore play, back rubs, foot rubs, play with her hair, hisses, then no action. Bummer, bummer, bummer!!! That is why the hot tub just sits most of the time.
W had a hysterectomy and we have done it in the hot tub. No follopian tubes, so no problem there. W did get urinary tract infection (UTI) so no more nookie in the tub.
I heard about the shower massage for female MB in the last couple of years. When I read about the female MB using the shower, I started to think that maybe it happen in my house when D was around 15. Her showeing activities changed. It did not dawn on me until I read about women MBing in the shower. I also figured out why the pillow masager was in her room most of the time. Strange how you put 2 and 2 together 15 years after someone moves out of the house.
Anyway, D is 34 now and loves her H, so I guess that was good practice for her. Much better than being a cold fish as the boys in the garage called it.
{{ add a bit of emolients, oils, soap for a silky feel}} Liese, I liked sharing a bouble bath with W when we first got M. She was normal drive then. Her favorite thing to add to the bath water was "Skin So Soft" I think that was an Avon brand product. Soft, smooth skin that smelled like spring flowers, now that is HOT.
Gotta shake that girl loose!!
ML under water? Never heard of that.