I'm so happy for you...and proud of you both, you've obviously put a lot of hard work in on both sides
Isn't it amazing how difficult it is to self-disclose to the people who are supposed to be the closest to us. My H and I had a convo about that recently too and agreed that no matter what we have to say to each other, no matter how wierd we think it is, or whether or not we think it will piss the other spouse off or hurt their feelings...if there's something we need to say to get it off our chests then we're going to do it.
I'm currently working really hard on doing this myself...and it's a tough one, but I'm working on it :-)
Once again, congrats! I'm glad to see someone posting successes on here
