Maybe time to get a life or at least make H think you have. Go out with friends, take a class, attend a concert. Be mysterious if H asks. Don't lie to him, but be vague about the details.
Keep up the PMA. I think there is nothing more unsettling than to get the opposite reaction you would expect. So H should be expecting you to be moody, angry, upset. Instead smile, laugh with him, tell him a joke. He'll be thinking WTF. Worth a try anyway.
ShawnL
So if you're tired of that same old story, turn some pages. I'll be ready when you are able, to roll with the changes. - REO Speedwagon