I feel like I can't give up until the D (at this point) but the line in the sand is going to be drawn for me. H's filing will be put into motion when our house sells. Probably in the spring if not sooner.
Sometimes I feel like filing myself to "wake him up" like some DBr's have done. I don't think this would work with my H and I have to wait for A to fizzle or whatever.
How can I convey that I've moved on and that I might not always be around while still holding out hope?