Nobody's going to kid anybody here. We all want to save what we had. The reality, some spouses come around sooner than others and some never do. The only thing we can influence is ourselves. I know my chances, but despite that I keep a good PMA and continue to work on those issues I've identified as lacking in myself. If my spouse doesn't eventually respond, her loss. I will still be happy with myself and happiness will bring good things in the future.
I have only been at this for 2 months now, someday if my spouse, isn't interested, I will have to draw the line in the sand for myself. I know that will not be easy either.
ShawnL
So if you're tired of that same old story, turn some pages. I'll be ready when you are able, to roll with the changes. - REO Speedwagon