I found out that if you want something, you have to ask for it, no one can read your mind.

I found out that married people don't talk enough to each other -about each other- in a good way. Every day can't be Valentines day, but just one nice compliment or touch a day can go along way toward staying connected.

I found out that if you make a mistake, and are sincere about your apology, that you should not have to pay for it forever.

I found out being that your true friends will listen to you whine for hours and still be supportive.