Yeah the EA is a rough thing. I have had to face the fact that I contributed to the environment which led to the EA. My actions, or lack of them, helped to distance W. She was vulnerable and found her voice through someone else.
This is why I am trying to be the best person possible, to rediscover that which my spouse first found attractive. Become her soft spot to land and outcompete the OM. I know her buttons better than he and I am in the best position to support her when the doubts start flooding in.
ShawnL
So if you're tired of that same old story, turn some pages. I'll be ready when you are able, to roll with the changes. - REO Speedwagon
