ShawnL What about emotional involvement and maybe kissing (I don't know exactly har far my H's A went) - I personally think of it as cheating - telling someone that they are their inspiration, that they think of them all the time and dream of them...yeah that's cheating in my book. Sometimes EA is more damaging than PA - with PA you can try and think of it as "sex only" where as in EA your mind is involved and it's your mind that makes the choices.
