I'm with you on that one. I haven't even been separated (the D day was on Oct 18th) - still living under the same roof, my H wants D (not separation and then D) no matter what, told me he was not leaving me for anyone particular but he is currently seeing a co-worker - not sure how involved. What kills me is that he said that he wants the D so he is NOT a cheating H. Well, there goes that hope for him....
