I have read about what the NOPS do and I would like to chime in with I think there is a 3rd category. That category is ND, No Desire. That is where I would put my own wife. If Mrs. Nops is light years ahead of where my wife is right now. I think that with LD, there is at least the hope of things getting even better. But with ND, it looks pretty darn bleak.
