JustJenny wrote:
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I didn't really take NOP that way either. I'm just sort of cheating by using the quote about getting bored after 40x to argue in an absurd fashion against his claim that HD/HD wouldn't work.
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HD/HD can work, it just produces greater friction in the relationship.

Imagine two HD's Both needs the other to be aggressive otherwise nothing works. Both are adamant that the other must initiate. In real life, the examples are much more subtle, but the notion of greater friction has been observed by me. Maybe it was a one of a kind fluke, but since I don't believe in the commonness of the relationally unique, I would imagine that friction like I participated in, and have observed in other high drive relationships, is fairly common.

Coffee break is over, back on my head.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.