Honeypot?

[MJontheMend]

I think everything you say makes sense and Kudos to you for claiming your sexuality for yourself. The problem with your analysis, IMO, is that when people are married, they know each other too well to hide how they feel about things, especially things like sex. I have NEVER said anything negative to my H about his skills as a lover besides pointing out the infrequency with which he practices those skills. In fact, I don't have any real complaints about his performance once he gets into action mode but even if I tried, I would be unable to hide the fact that I am disappointed that he wants sex so infrequently and is so unresponsive to my attempts at initiation when I am in the mood. It's kind of funny that you feel sexually rejected in a way that makes you LD and I feel sexually rejected in a way that makes me HD. Unfortunately, not funny in a ha-ha kind of way.