He said that in the absence of a good relationship, animal sex gets boring after 40 times. I don't know if I'd be bored, lol, but I would certainly tire of it and emotionally want something else.
He went on to say that partners with similar drives tend to have more friction between them. I'm not so sure about that part. I have only had a relationship with one person who I know for certain is tried-and-true HD. The others, hmmm, I think they would have stood the test of time but who knows. One for sure was LD and then I met and married my husband.
Looking back, would I have experienced a higher amount of friction with MrHD? I don't think so. Perhaps in other areas of our lives together, but not in the sexual arena.
But then again, I am not some firecracker volatile crackpot of a woman--I'm a normal HD person. I am a housewife who dotes on her kids. I get the impression that NOP's HD partners were sorta loose cannons.
Who knows, but I wanted to tell you to get that 40 thing outta your head! I don't think we HD wives are doomed to get boring after 40 times.
But I can't talk much because I don't offer my H animal sex every time either. My own natural preference for that would be, say, 1 time out of 10. The rest of the time I am content with fast-paced-but-predictable sex. And a session of making lurrrv every once in a while.
