Why is the hubby so tired? Does he load up his schedule too much and thus gets tired. If so, then his obligation to you is to lighten the schedule so as to make room for YOU on his schedule. Does he have a sleep disorder? You say he is snoring, that can mean the possibility of a sleep disorder, exspecially sleep apnea. My doctor and wife have brought this up with me, although I don't get tired at bed time, just in the early evening. Sleep apnea prevents deep sleep since you stop breathing and eventually wake up slightly to start breathing. THis causes a person to be tired alot. Men with neck sizes above 15.5 inches are PRIME candidates for this desease. Above 15.5 inches and there is just to much neck tissue that it may cause problems when laying down to sleep. My own neck size is close to 18 inches, mostly do to lifting weights which bulks up that part of the body. Another cause of tiredness is depression. Just some things to think about. There must be a way to minimixe the tiredness each night.