Quote: Why do you assume that maintaining an easy good humor throughout the day and being able to generate sexual heat from a simple end of the day snuggle on a regular basis is the "easy", "pragmatic" choice?
I think of it as a pragmatic choice as compared to what sounded (to me) as a more idealized occurance. In the same way that I think there is a difference between the meals we cook throughout the year (pragmatic) and the meals we cook on special holidays (idealized).
I don't know that I asserted that it was the "easy" choice. If being considerate & loving toward each other on a daily basis were easy, I think more people would be doing so.
The sexual heat isn't generated only during the climbing under the covers, that seems to be the culmination of our interactions with each other throughout the day. The "simple end of the day snuggle" includes kissing, carressing, oral sex, etc.
Quote: The reason that NOP can get it up night after night to "make love" to you is he is SUPER-HD.
I could be misreading, but this sounded snarky to me. If that wasn't your intention, I apologize for the misreading. If it was your intention to poke a bit, why?
