Why do you assume that maintaining an easy good humor throughout the day and being able to generate sexual heat from a simple end of the day snuggle on a regular basis is the "easy", "pragmatic" choice? Even if I felt like this would satisfy all my needs, it would NEVER,EVER work for my husband. Just the word "snuggle" turns him off. The reason that NOP can get it up night after night to "make love" to you is he is SUPER-HD.
My "fantasy" is actually based on a real-life encounter I had with my H this summer. He had been out of town for a while and when I came to pick him up, he couldn't wait so he threw me down on the backseat, ripped off my pants, pinned my legs spread-eagle, stared at my pussy and then looked me in the eyes and said "Beautiful.". I thought "This man wants me" and I had no trouble orgasming at all.
It makes me CRAZY that the same man three monthes later would rather watch Ted Koppel than have sex with me even though I'm visibly aroused and actively seductive. It makes me especially CRAZY that I know he was horny this summer because I was threatening to leave him over the sex issue. The fact of the matter is my LDH is the one who needs relationship "excitement" in order to be aroused, not me.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
